8. Mai … manche Menschen machen einen still…

Manchmal schweigen wir. Weil wir nichts zu sagen haben, nicht die richtigen Worte finden oder weil jedes einzelne Wort von Schmerz begleitet wäre. Und manchmal schweigen wir, um nicht verletzend zu werden. Ich sag gern, was ich denke und nehme es gelegentlich auch immer wieder in Kauf, mich damit unbeliebt zu machen. Aber kennt ihr die Sorte Mensch, die sich einfach nie angesprochen fühlt? Denen könnte man mit dem Betonpfeiler einer Autobahnbrücke den bekannten „Wink mit dem Zaunpfahl“ geben, sie kämen nicht im Traum darauf, irgendwas davon auf sich zu beziehen. Im Gegenteil, der böse böse Betonpfeiler ist nur einer mehr, der sich gegen ihn verschworen hat…

Ich werde jetzt mal das tun, was die meisten anderen auch tun; mich nur um mich selbst kümmern. Vielleicht einer meiner nächsten Lernprozesse; die Probleme anderer Leute sind nicht meine Probleme – auch wenn sie ständig auf meinem Tisch abgeladen werden. Und ich behandel jetzt mal eine Weile jeden so, wie er mich behandelt. Die ersten Reaktionen sind schon da und wie immer sehr interessant. Manchen schadet es sicher nicht, mal sich selbst zu begegnen oder wenigstens mal zu fühlen, wie man sich ihnen gegenüber fühlt.

Vielleicht schützen wir auch nicht nur Andere, indem wir schweigen. Sondern auch ein Stück weit uns selbst. Es ist eben auch nicht immer einfach, anderen anständig zu begegnen und dabei man selbst zu bleiben. Und es gibt Dinge, die müssen wir gar nicht verstehen; Menschen, die wir nicht zwingend mögen müssen; vieles, was wir nun mal nicht ändern können. Aber eines sollten wir immer; versuchen, wir selbst zu bleiben!

 

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